Most girls out there are all for feminism and women empowerment. I guess I have to be pretty brave to say this aloud on the internet, but I'm not sure if I agree with everything that they do in this direction.
Girls aren't all the angelic, light hearted creatures they look like. Many of them play all sorts of games. Some do everything in their capacity to make a guy like them; touch, hold hands, confide in, all at once, with a guy they already know is falling for them. Once they've made him comfortable enough to confess his feelings, they throw him out and complain about what a nuisance he is, to a new guy. Many of them unconsciously think that they're the only ones who are entitled to feelings. The tiniest of problems calls for innumerable tears and drama, but the feelings that they hurt are worth nothing. Well of course; she's a princess, isn't she? Even worse, they complain about this boy to their girlfriends, victimizing themselves while actually meaning to show off the list of guys trailing her, trying to prove that she's better than the rest.
Girls can be more tactful than their innocent faces reveal. Some put on a show of how dainty she is, getting help carrying heavy things though she can do it herself, trying to be dependent as they know a man would like them; they misuse chivalrous guys. Some don't bother to take care of themselves because well, others will notice and do it for them. As much as all these characters are attractive from the outside of their head, from the inside, they're plain disgusting. A woman with an appetite, who is responsible enough to care for herself and for more than just that is more pleasant to deal with.
Keeping herself well enough to be a provider for others is admirable. A woman who doesn't try to seek the attention of many, with loud whining about her first world problems, spread far and wide, is far more pleasant to be around. A woman who speaks about the problems she's overcome like they're achievements, is the one who's got a right to speak about feminism, not those that are decked up in make-up to pose for pictures to be put on Facebook while holding posters about female empowerment. Buck up and fend for yourself, or at least do your best- that's what a grown up does, male or female. It's time women empowered themselves! Do what you believe to be right, don't play dumb to look sexy. Stand tall, even if you're the shorter ones. Be strong, even if you're built weaker. Strength isn't something that is supposed to be associated with masculinity; strength is a desirable property of any self-respecting human being, and a woman who strives for that, is fantastico!
Girls aren't all the angelic, light hearted creatures they look like. Many of them play all sorts of games. Some do everything in their capacity to make a guy like them; touch, hold hands, confide in, all at once, with a guy they already know is falling for them. Once they've made him comfortable enough to confess his feelings, they throw him out and complain about what a nuisance he is, to a new guy. Many of them unconsciously think that they're the only ones who are entitled to feelings. The tiniest of problems calls for innumerable tears and drama, but the feelings that they hurt are worth nothing. Well of course; she's a princess, isn't she? Even worse, they complain about this boy to their girlfriends, victimizing themselves while actually meaning to show off the list of guys trailing her, trying to prove that she's better than the rest.
Girls can be more tactful than their innocent faces reveal. Some put on a show of how dainty she is, getting help carrying heavy things though she can do it herself, trying to be dependent as they know a man would like them; they misuse chivalrous guys. Some don't bother to take care of themselves because well, others will notice and do it for them. As much as all these characters are attractive from the outside of their head, from the inside, they're plain disgusting. A woman with an appetite, who is responsible enough to care for herself and for more than just that is more pleasant to deal with.
Keeping herself well enough to be a provider for others is admirable. A woman who doesn't try to seek the attention of many, with loud whining about her first world problems, spread far and wide, is far more pleasant to be around. A woman who speaks about the problems she's overcome like they're achievements, is the one who's got a right to speak about feminism, not those that are decked up in make-up to pose for pictures to be put on Facebook while holding posters about female empowerment. Buck up and fend for yourself, or at least do your best- that's what a grown up does, male or female. It's time women empowered themselves! Do what you believe to be right, don't play dumb to look sexy. Stand tall, even if you're the shorter ones. Be strong, even if you're built weaker. Strength isn't something that is supposed to be associated with masculinity; strength is a desirable property of any self-respecting human being, and a woman who strives for that, is fantastico!
This blog post is inspired by the blogging marathon hosted on IndiBlogger for the launch of the #Fantastico Zica from Tata Motors. You can apply for a test drive of the hatchback Zica today.
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